Laoli

Nice and meaningful post.
One day is not too much! So, without any panic, I'll try to do my best, like my day off!
Anyway, I certainly, would call my Mum, my brother and the rest of family,

Then I would call my best friend to say goodbye.
Then I spend the rest of the day with my sweet husband!

Having our last favorite dinner together,
Watching our last movie!

Making love
Then after taking a shower, I would wear my best clothes and perfume

Then when I hold his hand and put my head on his shoulder ((sorry Mehdi, but I would listen to your song, too "let you leave me"))...
Then with saying thank you, I would close my eyes.

Listen to some good tunes immediately and relax
Get my espresso coffee with my Italian Bialetti traditional coffee pot
Drink my coffee and smoke a good cigarette as if it's my last

Review some parts of this show in a glance while I'm drinking and smoking, in silence
Call my family members and some real friends to gather

Drop some last notes to make everything clear
Spend some good times with the lovely cat with me and her sweet three whelps
Order good meal and best fruits

Call on some friends for a short talk and will certainly tell them I'm leaving, but no panic
Take a good shower
Dress up with my best suits and use my perfume 'Grey Flannel'

Read a nice Ghazal (poem) from Hafez
Review some of my own Persian poems
Play my great mysterious instrument dubbed "Dalang" kind of oriental "taar-strings"
Hold a kind of ceremony with all my beloved ones
I'd tell them I loved them all, always, and if I ever went wrong it was unintentional
Ask them to forgive me for any bad thing I ever did to them, even if small
And ask them to be sure I never demanded a thing for me from them, so feel peaceful in mind as they never failed to me
I'd tell them that I'm happy for the entire thing I've done in my life, but one
I wished I didn't waste a single moment and had learned more
I'd tell them to remember that this life is not worth of wasting even a single moment in sadness and anger
I'd tell them that love, faith and hope are fundaments of life, I believe
I'd sing them the two tunes in Persian I've ever loved and they are my made, though
I'd tell them I prefer to see them happy after I leave
I'd tell them never think of this planet without war and threats, so find their way to create a small one for themselves

I'd shake hand with all and kiss them
I'd then start a show and make fun as much as I can and make them laugh to death
I'd take a Jack Daniel or Hennessy shot, then

I'd call Laoli and thank her for the nice post, if I can reach her
I'd say 'hello God', I'm ready
I'll kiss the "Bloom"
Say bye to all and kiss them again, hug them and thank them for all they've done for me
And if they want I don't mind taking a snap shot for last
I'm sure there's no one far at that time and I have all my beloved ones, my blood or not, but all beside me and there's one very special that I'd rather to kiss her in private if I can
I'd sit down and everyone goes in silence
I'd say Huha (like that of Al Pacino - Scent of Woman)
Close my eyes, drop one single tear and go...

Hey Laoli,
This blog shall remain in top for weeks I believe. Soon you'll receive many posts. It's a great one and you did really well.
Much love / Mehdi

I would remember everything.

I live my life by not holding on to tight to it. Like Eienstein said, "Energy can NEVER cease, it can only change form."

I would spend every moment with my husband!!! I would call my family, write letters, and tell everyone in my life that I loved them.

Most importantly....I would steal kisses from my husband and cherish the love that he and I have shared just one last time!!!!!

No regrets!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I would take a deep breath at first .
Think a liitle to remind myself what to do to not forget even one .
I certainly go to my Mum's arm and hug her deeply .
I would have a drink as well .
Spend some moments with my dear family .
Ask every one that I inadvertently bothered to forgive me .
Also spend some minutes with " Mau " my only beloved cat .
I may call to my grandma and grandpa to say goodbye to them.
I would just call to my friends to hear their voice for the last time.
I certainly listen to all my favourite songs shortly , just to remind the memories.
I may cook .
Take a shower .
And at the end , definitely and certainly i spend the last moments with my partner as well .
Close my eyes and wait for the God bid . Then go ...

I think I'd need to put up the coat hooks my Wife has been nagging for.... That would make her happy......

Hey Tim,

Clever comment, ha?

Tim

so sorry to hear that , marriage could be a really nerve rocking incident some times i guess , but don't worry lots of people have been through the same thing . you'll be safe and sound

take care
laoli